I haven't seen this one mentioned yet. ICEA (International Childbirth
Education Association) in Minneapolis, Minnesota, carries a brochure
entitled "To the Grandmother of the Breastfed Baby." Along with the
helpful suggestions (including what NOT to say), it acknowledges that
the grandmother may not have breastfed, explaining that women today
get "help and information that you may not have received when you had
your babies."
Kate Pennington, Newcastle, Maine