>Maybe we should ask our kids what they remember of their long term breast
>nurturing?

I once asked Lia, my older daugther, what she remembered about having
"milkies." She thought a moment and said, "I remember that when I would
crawl up on your lap and have milkies, I felt so safe."

Being so touched by that expression, I asked Alison.  She said, "I remember
that if I had milkies, then quickly ran to get a drink of water the water
tasted sweet."

Welllll..., I accepted that fond memory too.

Pat Gima, IBCLC
Milwaukee