Hello, all.

This subject really hit home for me.  My husband and I have lived in
four cities in the under-5 years we have been married, which has
necessitated finding new pediatricians about once a year for our 4 & 1
y.o. daughters.  It has been a learning experience for me.

I have had pediatricians tell me that breastfeeding was "nice" but I
could quit whenever I "liked."  I have had pediatricians ask me what
formula I was giving my daughter, and then stare blankly at me when I
say I'm not feeding formula-- the idea of breastmilk wasn't there at
all.  Granted, I live in a state with dismal breastfeeding rates (of
course, I'm also certain these peds are contributing to these low
rates).

At any rate, I have written letters to all the peds that we have
chosen not to use (three).  Generally, I list in bullet form any
events or specific concerns I have.  I invite the ped to call me (they
never have). I try to leave out anything insulting, and couch the
letter in as positive a light as possible.

One thing I will add is that the best breastfeeding information and
support, as well as parenting support, I have ever gotten is from our
current doctor-- a family practitioner with a concentration in
gerontology!  He seems to have read most of the current literature on
breastfeeding, he is very responsive, and he says "I don't know" when
he doesn't.

I have also written this doctor a letter outlining the reasons why I
appreciate his kowledge & openness regarding breastfeeding.  I think
just as it is important to inform doctors why you are leaving their
practice, it is equally important to inform doctors that are doing a
good job of your pleasure.  And I have to say, after my experience
with this FP, I will probably look for an FP to care for my daughters
BEFORE I look for a pediatrician.

Teresa G. in NC, where it was 74 yesterday and is 26 this morning!