Brenda, what a beautiful story!  If any of these women have another child, I bet
they will be lining up to get appointments with you when they are 6 mos. along,
just to be properly prepared.  Their reaction points up once again how deeply
BF affects us - we sometimes need to defend ourselves and our private defeats,
toward total strangers, years after the fact.  How tragic is THAT?

Sometimes taking the high road requires almost superhuman restraint but I think
it's always worth it.  If the other people don't come around, you can gloat
with no guilt about what a much better person you are than they are, and if
they do start taking another look, as they did here, you don't need to gloat.

(.Y.)
Rachel Myr
Kristiansand, Norway

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