I have had several moms make this comment in the past.  Now I make it first.
 "I can't go home with you so now take the baby off the breast and try it for
your self."
I step back , sit on my hands, and let mom handle it.  As I said in my earlier
post, once mom knows how it's supposed to feel they can take over on their
own.  They are quite proud about being able to get right.  To me that's
empowerment.
Marie Davis RN, IBCLC