Dear Gonneke, it is a well known fact that mother's lose 1/2 of their brain
cells with placenta, after 2 kids you are all done in :-b
Robb has a slightly different theory, but this is the one I was always told
in Childbirth Class prep.  Amazingly the cells return about a year or so
after kids grow up and leave home :-)

Seriously, I think it has to do with overload  "we have produced a baby, oh
my what have we done? How will I manage?  What do I do with this totally
dependent thing? Oh my body hurts, oh I'm tired."  You name it.  It is all
very abstract until the little bundle is actually here.  experienced moms
cope much better.  Sincerely, Pat in SNJ

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