Mira,
If that is what they insist on hearing, why not weave the necessary stuff
into what they want to hear. For instance, your outline could include
contraindications to bfg (the list that's shorter than they think),
"reading" a mother's cry for help when she expresses doubt, alternatives to
drying up milk in temporary situations, psychological effects of losing a
bfg relationship,etc. Give'em what they want, the how-to's of terminating
milk production (don't forget sage), but in context of how infrequently that
really is necessary!

In other words, make lemonade out the ingredients they are handing you. :-)

Lisa Marasco, BA, IBCLC