Dear Jeanette, I try to explain to moms in this situation (sleep 12 hrs,
nurse 12 x in 12 hours) that it is a trade off.  The reward is "sleep all
night" the unreward is nurse every hour on the hour!  The baby is usually
going to   get their 8-12 nursings per 24 hours no matter what you do.  I
liked your idea of keeping baby near the cafeteria.  I've also  had moms
set alarm and deliberately get up  and feed at 3 am.  It usually begins to
level off  and tincture of time helps alot.  Sincerely, Pat in SNJ