Sue Manore wrote:
<<As for the 3rd child throwing the mom for a loop I can attest to that.
Having
2 was no big deal for me. But when number 3 came along it took me over a year
to get use to having 3. I always felt that with two there's a hand for each
child to hold, and a parent per child. It's not like that with 3. It took me
three years to decide to add to our family. When #4 came along he just
blended right in, no problem. It sort of felt natural.>>
I also think this is common. One father (now going on #5) told me, "The
change from 2 to three was the hardest for us -- we had to go from "man" to
"zone.""
:-)
Elisheva
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