Thanks to all for the suggestions I'll put them to good use.
I saw a mom/baby recently with that story along with "I couldnt keep up with him" This baby was well over BW at 2 weeks and at the top of the growth chart at 2 months before mom weaned.
From now on any mom with older children who didnt successful BF for a year gets your ideas as anticipatory guidance along with sleep position and car seats.
When mom's BF in front of the other children I always compliment them especailly if the children are old enough the understand the baby is feeding and remmeber it. For older female siblings my line is onlong the idea of "good she sees how to do this lost art" for boys its "he will be one of the few men in the US who knows what breast are really for."
-Rob