Laurie,
Please direct your adoptive mom to the adoptive bf site run by a group
mom of mine:
http://www.prismnet.com/~naomi/abrw
She can email Naomi from her website. The website addresses a lot of
questions Naomi gets. Since you mentioned she doesn't have internet
access, maybe she could look it up on a friend's computer, or at her
local public library (if it has free internet access like we do here in
Austin).
Best wishes to her,
Anna Swisher
LLL Leader
Austin, TX