remember, you are *all* guests in my living room, mine and Kathleen
Auerbach's..and we'd like you to play nicely...don't take your toys and go
home. : )
By extension, we are all guests in each other's living rooms, as well.
And you don't walk into someone's house and start haranguing them. Or call them up and leave harassing phone calls on their answering machines.
Maybe this could be seen as one of our mottos, standards of etiquette?
LURK AND LEARN.
DISCUSS -- YES!!
DEMEAN, BELITTLE, HARRASS -- NO!!
Sincerely, Chanita, San Francisco