Val,
        I must respectfully disagree with bottlefeeding as an acceptable
option when a baby "refuses" the breast.
        Fingerfeeding with an SNS works well for the babes and parents I
see.  Especially when done by mom at breast, so baby can get the
sight/sound/smell messages about breasts are for feeding!  I've seen a
smart tyke or two just latch to the breast after spitting out the finger
and tubing....lovely sight!
Karen Zeretzke, MEd, IBCLC
Baton Rouge, Louisiana