Linda, I can see why you are stumped.
How long has this pain been consistent? Could it be that the 2 yr old has
changed some of his BF habits a bit? A little more tongue play, or tongue
games while BF? Mine did that and boy was I SORE. It took some real
detective work and some careful atching of his cheeks and jaws to figure it
out. I mean, heck my nips are tender 'cause I am pregnant, but there was too
much soreness going on, so I looked for and found other causes, and fixed
them. We can now BF virtually painfree! (Thank goodness!)
I wish this mom the best!
Jay