Barbara wrote, in reference to a mom who needed to wean early:
<< "You have not failed. The health care system failed you
by failing to provide you with enough support to succeed." >>
This is how I always felt with moms who really wanted to have their babies
without medication, and ended up with an epidural. She didn't fail -- we,
the medical system failed her in failing to provide her with enough support.
We, the medical system fails women more often than I would like to think.
Barbara, thank you for your universal apology. I think we all need to tuck
it back in our brains, and use it when appropriate.
Jan Barger