Preparation for Parenthood
Preparation for parenthood is not just a matter of reading books and deco-
rating the nursery. Here are 12 simple tests for potential parents to take
to prepare themselves for the real-life experience of being a mother or
father.
1. Women: to prepare for maternity, put on a dressing gown and stick a
beanbag down the front. Leave it there for 9 months. After 9 months, take
out 10% of the beans. Men: to prepare for paternity, go to the local
drug store, tip the contents of your wallet on the counter, and tell the
pharmacist to help himself. Then go to the supermarket. Arrange to have your
salary paid directly to their head office. Go home. Pick up the paper. Read
it for the last time.
2. Before you finally go ahead and have children, find a couple who are
already parents and berate them about their methods of discipline, lack of
patience, appallingly low tolerance levels, and how they have allowed their
children to run riot. Suggest ways in which they might improve their child's
sleeping habits, toilet training, table manners and overall behavior. Enjoy
it - it'll be the last time in your life that you will have all the answers.
3. To discover how the nights will feel, walk around the living room from
5pm to 10pm carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 8-12 lbs. At 10pm put
the bag down, set the alarm for midnight, and go to sleep. Get up at 12 and walk
around the living room again, with the bag, till 1am. Put the alarm on for
3am. As you can't get back to sleep get up at 2am and make a drink. Go to
bed at 2.45am. Get up again at 3am when the alarm goes off. Sing songs in
the dark until 4am. Put the alarm on for 5am. Get up. Make breakfast. Keep this
up for 5 years. Look cheerful.
4. Can you stand the mess children make? To find out, smear peanut butter
onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains. Hide a fish finger behind the
stereo and leave it there all summer. Stick your fingers in the flowerbeds
then rub them on the clean walls. Cover the stains with crayons. How does
that look?
5. Dressing small children is not as easy as it seems: first buy an octopus
and a string bag. Attempt to put the octopus into the string bag so that
none of the arms hang out. Time allowed for this - all morning.
6. Take an egg carton. Using a pair of scissors and a pot of paint turn it
into an alligator. Now take a toilet tube. Using only scotch tape and a
piece of foil, turn it into a Christmas cracker. Last, take a milk container,
a
ping pong ball, and an empty packet of Coco Pops and make an exact replica
of the Eiffel Tower. Congratulations. You have just qualified for a place on
the playgroup committee.
7. Forget the Miata and buy a minivan. And don't think you can leave it
out in the driveway spotless and shining. Family cars don't look like that.
Buy a chocolate ice cream bar and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it
there. Get a quarter. Stick it in the cassette player. Take a family-size
packet of chocolate cookies. Mash them down the back seats. Run a garden
rake along both sides of the car. There. Perfect.
8. Get ready to go out. Wait outside the bathroom for half an hour. Go
out the
front door. Come in again. Go out. Come back in. Go out again. Walk down
the front path. Walk back up it. Walk down it again. Walk very slowly down
the road for 5 minutes. Stop to inspect minutely every cigarette end, piece of
used chewing gum, dirty tissue and dead insect along the way. Retrace your
steps. Scream that you've had as much as you can stand, until the neighbors
come out and stare at you. Give up and go back into the house. You are now
just about ready to try taking a small child for a walk.
9. Always repeat everything you say at least five times.
10. Go to your local supermarket. Take with you the nearest thing you can
find to a pre-school child - a fully grown goat is excellent. If you intend
to
have more than one child, take more than one goat. Buy your week's groceries
without letting the goats out of your sight. Pay for everything the goats
eat or destroy. Until you can easily accomplish this do not even contemplate
having children.
11. Hollow out a melon. Make a small hole in the side. Suspend it from the
ceiling and swing it from side to side. Now get a bowl of soggy
cornflakes and attempt to spoon it into the swaying melon by pretending to
be an aeroplane.
Continue until half the cereal is gone. Tip the rest into your lap, making
sure that a lot of it falls on the floor. You are now ready to feed a 12 mo
old baby.
12. Learn the names of every character from Barney, Mighty Morphin Power
Rangers and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. When you find yourself singing "I
Love You, You Love Me" at work, you finally qualify as a parent.
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Kathleen B. Bruce, BSN, IBCLC, LLLeader, co-owner Lactnet, LLLOL, Corgi-L
LACTNET WWW site: http://www.mcs.com/~auerbach/lactation.html
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