karen:

      roerig, manufacturer of diflucan, has two new pediatric formulations
10mg/cc and 40mg.cc...the fda (in the usa) has apptoved safety profile from 1
day to 17yrs.  ..6mg/kg loading dose followed by 3-6 mg/kg therafter.....

     from your description, both parties need intensive treatment.... they
may also want to look at environment and diet.

                           patricia