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>Primitive perfect milk. Every child's right to mothers milk .
Primitive perfect milk. Emotional, phycological , cranial , sexual
growth are the basic right ofthe baby human . Primitive perfect milk .
Your body and mind will tell you all . First thoughts are the best . Second
guessing yourself will only stress you and your baby . Trust yourself .
Ask yourself . Listen .
4 out of 5 women stop breatfeeding at 8 weeks ------ Just the moment
things are going to get better you quit .Don't give up . Life is like that
. Don't miss the joy of a content no bottle baby . No BOTTLES --- THINK
ABOUT IT . Just the time you will save in preparing formula and bottles
will be worth the effort .
You the human food processor. Like any piece of equipment you must fuel it
well then maintain it for the best performance . Treat yourself. An
occasional natural beer or wine with food absolutely allowed . Excesses in
anything are bad . You already know that . If you are a cafe nut , a
nourishing and tasting Cafe Latte can be made with a chicory or barley
substitute like Inca or Ricory and warm milk.
Eat Sleep Play the rest doesn't matter .
Sexual inhibitions or past abuse can be untangled and healed nurturing a
newborn.Trust it will. Use this opportunity to heal yourself. Posture
problems can be unkinked . Almost impossible to abuse a breastfed baby .
Medical problems are medical problems but the percentages are low and
there are experts to assist. You are meant to breast feed .
The wrath of God does not descend if the dishes are not done !!
All attention is on your baby not your house . If the mess bothers someone
tell them to clean it . Smile . Look at those milk fed cheeks . You just
want to eat them kiss them cuddle them .
Make the connection between your bodies as quickly as possible .
THROW OUT THE NURSING BRA . OR ANY OTHER BINDING GADGETS .
Layer your clothes . A short cotton tank tap allows fast access . Just
lift it up . A button up shirt over the tank . If you are cold add a
button up vest, sweater or jacket . Presto breastfeeding elegance .
In no time you'll become an expert in exiting only the nipple into a
hungry mouth .Nursing without the embarrasing rigormoal . Practise
nursing sitting on the foor, and standing up . As soon as you need to
leeeeve the house go to a park or mall they all have benches . If someone
is uptight about you nursing in public it is their problem not yours.
Ignore them they are stupid. Talk to your baby.
Laugh sing touch smile . Teach your child happy sounds . Relax Cry if you
need to.
Say the words "Relax Milk Flow " Smile , cuddle that georgeous body. It
is only yours for such a short time . These precious moments build a
relationship so deeply moving so utterly loving so satisfying.
Don't think about it just do it. Breastfeeding is not an anomoly to your
its a normal part of it . If the baby cries a little that's good , they
are alive . Screaming is different you will automatically know the
difference. Let down will happen naturally with their sucking motion ,
cooing , proximity and desire.
Learn to communicate your happy thoughts to your baby The first words you
teach them should be laughing giggling . Smile it relieves the tension .
Sing- they don't care if you can carry a tune. You are madonna to them
whatever. Thank yourself for the miracle of birth . You did it you should
be proud. Touch cuddle fondle your baby All the gadgets or toys in the
world cannot replace that .
Listen first to yourself , to your body. If it says stop . Then stop ..
If you need something to drink you'll be amazed at how ambidexturous you
can be .
A hunch will tell you the baby has GAS . Trust yourself . Delatch , baby
over shoulder , burp and back again . Sometimes just the simple change in
position remedies Gas can cause unnaturally forceful sucking . If it
huuurts . STop , Burp . You can't go wrong ..
Everyone will have advise for you . Accept only what you have already
discovered or felt for yourself . Putting problems in your head from
others will only confuse you only stress you out . Ignore them . Listen to
you .
Take your baby to bed with you. Cuddle their little bodies attempt as much
skin contact as possible. A mattress on the floor for baby and mama a
universal solutions for relaxed nights. ------- SLEEP . Baby becomes a
person becomes real to you when to feel their skin closest to you , Dont
worry about crushing them . They are used to being in you and know how to
kick if they are uncomfortable.
A LaLeche League meeting with dozens of mothers and babies . What do you
hear. What do you see. Contentment .... Says it all .
vokos
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