>Sometimes life can be so unfair. Mothers who co-sleep with their children
seem to respond to respond to their apnoea episodes and rouse. Yet when
babies not co-sleeping die of SIDS, does anyone accuse the mother of neglect
- never!
Why is our society so obsessed with blame? This poor mother needs so much
support. I'm glad you cried with her, because so many mourners will hide
their tears from her. My heart goes out to you all.
Lesley McBurney, Brisbane, Australia
Back from stunningly beautiful New Zealand