If you search the archives for this following Subject title, I think it will lead you where you want to go:
Jelliffe and Jelliffe, with correct punctuation.
Fascinating post.
Kathleen Bruce posted it in April 2014. I think everyone will enjoy reading it. They are powerful words, and they stuck in my mind.
Eithne Murray
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