Most of the young moms I see are wearing a top of some sort with a tank top/vest under. They sort of shift one up and the other down. Seems to work very well and isn't obvious.
She really needs to get to a local LLL meeting and see other moms nursing toddlers. Seeing is the important point even if the language exchange isn't great. What town is she in.? We have a great list of LLL groups in NJ. Pat in SNJ
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