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Date: | Wed, 13 Jul 2011 21:58:02 -0700 |
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It is frustrating when mom is not receptive to the things we "know" would go a
long way to helping. It's that old adage about "leading a horse to water". Our
job is to give her the information to make an informed choice, but in the end,
she chooses, we can't insist she do things "our way" even when we are certain
that things would go so much beter for her and baby if she was open to our
suggestions.
One thing stood out to me - this mom is not comfortable with close contact. She
didn't want to hold baby initially until it was clean and swaddled and declined
"laid back" position. Is there any possibility she would be open to holding
baby skin-to-skin without pushing feeding (let baby do that)? Perhaps you could
suggest that it would help her catch the early feeding cues so she can get in
the increased nursings you recommend. Of course, since this is her 4th, she is
probably quite busy meeting the needs of the other children (I don't think you
mentioned their ages) which might be limiting time available for one-on-one with
baby. Can you come up with ways to demonstrate to her how her finger position
is making it harder for baby? A couple that come to mind: ask her to drink from
a glass while you hold close to the rim with your fingers like a scissors hold
on the breast. Do the same with something like a cookie so she can only get a
small nibble instead of a bite of the cookie.
Winnie Mading
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