Have they tried dropper feeding? It's a pain in the neck but just might do the trick. Another variation on that is dipping a straw into the milk, covering the top then dropping the milk into baby's mouth. Here's a visual and some testimonial from a friend who dropper fed her granddaughter for a few months while the mom worked: http://www.mother-2-mother.com/refusingbottle.htm.

Dana Lauducci
Branchburg, NJ

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