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Karen Gromada <[log in to unmask]> wrote:
[EPing]
> But it isn't "breastfeeding" and I think it does need to be
distinguished
> from breastfeeding --
In a consultation between woman and lactation consultant, of course it
needs to be distinguished. In social situations and random small-talk
encounters, however? I considered it to be none of anyone else's
business, when I was doing it. I considered that no-one else had a
right to know all about what I was doing with my breasts; it was my
decision whether and when I disclosed. Here in Australia, I've often
heard the question phrased, "Are you feeding him yourself?" Where the
detailed answer wasn't relevant and I didn't feel like a long chat
about the ins and outs, I simply answered "Yes". My breasts, my milk,
my baby, my business, my privacy.
I am receiving the impression that _some_ of the anecdotes I've seen
here in the past are brief encounters where the storytellers felt
miffed that EPing mothers responded to intrusive questioning by saying
that they were "breastfeeding" - so what?
While there are (a very few) valid situations where the distinction
needs to be made, I sometimes get the impression that there is a bit
of territoriality that can be involved - a little bit of "how _dare_
she say she is breastfeeding!" sneaking in. I think this sort of
personal judgement is an attitude to be guarded against, as I don't
think it is productive. I am not specifically pointing the finger;
this is a general impression.
Lara Hopkins
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