I'm also a new IBCLC and can imagine I would react and feel the same way you do. I think you did the right things and ultimately, it IS the mother's decision so all you can do is provide her with the correct information. Hopefully a more seasoned IBCLC will chime in and give some advice. I'm not looking forward to that first confrontation, but I'm sure it'll happen. Hang in there.
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