Janet, this mom sounds very difficult, not very cooperative. You have my
sympathy. Do you think positive imaging would go over with her? How about
herbs to both relax her and hopefully increase her supply? From the story
you initially presented, it sounds to me that mom is not very committed
or sure that breastfeeding is for her. Hope for your sake that she's not
into the blame game. Gee, I sound tough, but I've been disappointed
myself by types like this. You just does your best for them. Good luck!
Judy K