Karleen and Jaye, beautiful posts.   Yes, don't jump to assumptions and judgements about grandma's motives.
About milk going away with stress, thank you for your perspective on how you needed rest and adequate diet....
I got a call a few weeks ago from a mother of a 3 - 4 month old whose 25 yo father had just been violently killed.  Mother was asking if her milk would go away with this stress.  I told her that removal of the milk is the biggest factor in making more, gave symphathy for her loss, and said that it could be a source of comfort for her and her baby to stay close and breastfeed.    
Women have real challenges in their lives.
Love to all, 
Susan in Minnesota   rn ibclc
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