My oldest is 21 so I didn't answer the first thread but
being a fairly recently accediated LC I have noticed
interesting things when I tell
people what I do. Those with children near my kids ages
say, "why do people need help, we just did it", people
whose kids are a few years younger
say, "I wish I had known you then, I had a lot of
trouble or it didn't work". The young moms I work with
at WIC say "I want to try but I don't think
it will work". One thing that has changed is the young
moms watch the "Baby Channel" or what ever that cable
station is called. Everyone there
has problems, of course, it's better TV. Most know
people who have tried and "failed", which lowers their
expectations and makes it more likely they will
have problems or give up. Also, those of us with older
kids sought out LLL and books like Karen Pryor's because
we wanted to breastfeed, now moms are encouaged
to breastfeed by others - family, friends, WIC, some
doctors, etc. and they are not as committed to something
they are doing for someone else (not their baby).
Like others mentioned there are certainly more birth
interventions and C-sections and don't forget the study
that just came out about pediatricains who are
not supporting breastfeeding. Then there is the fact
that many of us were stay at home moms, something also
difficult for many today. So many reasons, I'll give
one more that goes along with the pediatrician one, my
friend said to me the other day, it seems our kids were
the last "generation" that didn't all have diagnosis,
jaundice, reflux, low birth weight, high birth weight,
etc., etc. what's the first answer of many docs., give
formula.
Karen Kurtz, IBCLC, LLLL
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