< . . .Option 2: wait till you are calm and convey  the above opinion in a
really
professional and objective way,  ....and, so she gets a clear message that
you
do care and are there for her,  get eye level with mom, leaning in slightly
with the whole body language thing  going on: "How did you feel about this
advice?, ....yes, ((HUG if  appropriate)) what was your response to the
doctor?,
...were you satisfied  with the doctor's care?....what do think are some
options
for you are?,  .......blah blah blah, more professional and objective type
chit chat that  leads her to asking you if she should find a new doctor,
..."ah,
very good  idea, I 'm glad you thought of that, many new parents have found
that to be a  good strategy for reaching their goals in the best interest of
their baby",  .....then promptly give your client a list of Bf friendly and
knowledgeable  pediatricians/HCPs,>

Brilliant! You've certainly taught "an old dog" a new trick with the
smoothness of that approach! Bravo!

Jean

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