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Date: | Tue, 27 Sep 2005 11:59:45 EDT |
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I may be a few days late in answering the posting regarding mitts on babies
hands....one of my personal peeves. People think that babies are going to
scratch themselves and cause scarring. How ridiculous! Babies scratch
themselves in utero also. Their hands are the only thing they come with that we
really shouldn't cover up...they allow the baby to feel themselves and their new
world. I liken it to putting a blindfold on a new baby and suddenly his world
has changed dramatically and now we blindfold him, bundle him up and put him
in a plastic case away from his Mummy. How cruel this new world must be in
his preception, no wonder he feels stressed out. So I tell them to have
someone who will be visiting to bring the baby fingernail emery boards so if they
feel they MUST trim those nails they have a tool. I tell them to let the
fingers fall free from the sleeves of the nightgown when not using skin to skin
and to hold these small jewels so they can hear their Mommy's heart and feel
her breathing and allow them to transition to their new world. Sometimes we
need to give them permission. Some feel that by allowing the fingers to be
free the baby will suck them...Hey isn't that what they were put there
for...built in soothies when Mom isn't about? No, they would rather give a pacifier.
I remind them that if the ultrasound showed their hands in front of their
mouths they most likely were practicing sucking on their fingers...not a
pacifier. I also remind them that baby chooses his own source of
contentment....fingers, Mom or a pacifier if its introduced but that they shouldn't be so
quick to give the pacifier but to use their own clean fingers...skin feels so
much more nicer to their mouths. I also remind Mom that by looking at those
beautiful fingers and playing with them they are communicating to their babies by
touch. Babies who suck on fingers with mittens are eventually getting to
suck on wet rags.
Have just comeback from 10 days in California traveling with one of
breastfeeding granddaughters....no tears, just smiles and she is thinking of naming
her scrapbook "All the places I have breastfed in my sling from Miami to
Monterey to Big Sur to San Francisco to Napa and Sonoma and Marian and Muir Woods
and all points in between."
Back to unpacking, answering mail and laundry.
Fun day.
Fondly,
Leanne Jewell RNC, IBCLC, LCCE, FACCE
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