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Although, in our culture it is "okay" to choose not to breastfeed, but
not "okay" not to like sex. So it would be easier to find an excuse not
to breastfeed than to not have sex. Also, I think that a lot of sexually
abused/shamed women end up being promiscuous, rather than avoiding sex
altogether. I'm not sure why this happens but anecdotally I get the
impression that it is a more common problem. I understand that you're
assuming that it's a healthy relationship, but I'd venture that the same
women who are shunning breastfeeding as icky due to abuse issues have not
worked through them enough to be in a healthy sexual relationship.
Just musing...
Gina Gerboth--waving to Margaret :-)
> This is the part that always makes me pause. It seems to me that
> if
> there's an intimate bodily behavior likely to be thought disgusting
> (due to shame and/or abuse), it's SEX. If a woman is able to work
> through feelings of aversion to sex, and becomes pregnant in a
> healthy sexual relationship, then why shouldn't she similarly be
> able
> to handle breastfeeding? I just think breastfeeding should be a
> cakewalk after the kind of intimacy it takes to make a baby
> (assuming
> a healthy relationship).
>
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