Winnie:

 haveing heard Diane W speak to this issue I think that setting bf as the
"gold" standard is setting us up for failure... we need to see it as
normal... in many area of our lives we can not or do not attain the
"gold"standard... but silver is just as good...

 Therefore I think that when bf is the goldstandard it is o.k. not to reach
this "gold" either.

   Patricia

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