Patricia, You offered some excellent suggestions about foods that have NO dairy. It's obvious you've worked scrupulously with this. I like your suggestion to have something on hand that is "junk" so mom doesn't feel deprived. Please post a list of your favorite non-dairy items. I have been very guilty of giving the no-dairy recommendation without giving concrete solutions. The fig bars and colored fluffy things for Easter made me hungry! Thank you, Jeanne Fisher Austin, TX