This is not just disrespectful. It is AGAINST THE LAW. You have hit the nail on the head with your comment "I understand that its harassment, and that the supervisor in question must be informed." As for your question, "What else can I do to regain my dignity?" I would suggest that the best and most empowering thing you can do is to march into the supervisor's office, and say you want to file a FORMAL EEOC sexual harassment complaint. None of this "let us have an informal meeting first" stuff. You want to make this an on-the-record complaint, both because YOU were a harassment victim during the meeting, and because the comments are an indication that respect for the STUDENTS and PATIENTS is severely at risk. -- Liz Brooks JD IBCLC FILCA Wyndmoor, PA, USA *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome