I haven't seen anyone say this, and I hesitate to be a naysayer, but how does one know what the partner of any woman is doing? What I mean is, you can totally trust your sister' or best friend's health and lifestyle, for example, and not know if her partner frequents (male or female) prostitutes or uses drugs. Trust me, it happens to the nicest people. Laurie Wheeler RN MN IBCLC Mississippi USA *********************************************** Archives: http://community.lsoft.com/archives/LACTNET.html To reach list owners: [log in to unmask] Mail all list management commands to: [log in to unmask] COMMANDS: 1. To temporarily stop your subscription write in the body of an email: set lactnet nomail 2. To start it again: set lactnet mail 3. To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet 4. To get a comprehensive list of rules and directions: get lactnet welcome