Having also lost my son, also just over two years old, also in 1995 and also to drowning, I can tell you that this is extremely accurate, well written and helpful for those who wonder what to say, do, act and feel around bereaved and heartbroken parents. Ann Conlon-Smith IBCLC, LLLL *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html