But Cheryl, can you imagine how it would have turned out if you hadn't met her needs in the ways that you did? I can just hear people saying you "spoiled" her etc, etc, ad nauseam. Isn't it great to look back from your current prospective? Also have an 18 yo grandson, bf over 2 years and mothered ala our ideas who got a 4 yr scholarship to Drexel :-) Starts next week. Sincerely, Pat in SNJ *********************************************** To temporarily stop your subscription: set lactnet nomail To start it again: set lactnet mail (or digest) To unsubscribe: unsubscribe lactnet All commands go to [log in to unmask] The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html