You are welcome. Of course it's worth pursueing. I'd do a lot of chocolate before pursuing it. Rescue Remedy. Whatever floats your boat. but I'd DO it. He may not appreciate the confrontation, but he won't be able to deny that guilt is used in many other circumstances with NO hesitation. Kathleen \ At 06:39 PM 6/3/2002 -0400, you wrote: > Thank you for thinking its worth pursuing. The question is "can I be >diplomatic?" > Loretta Haycook, RN, IBCLC Kathleen B. Bruce, BSN, IBCLC co-owner Lactnet, Indep. Consultant http://together.net/~kbruce/kbbspin.html LACTNET Archives http://peach.ease.lsoft.com/archives/lactnet.html *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html