> Okay, I know the easiest thing to do is say, wean your daughter, or > stop > drinking / smoking. > The mother has, no doubt, heard this from other people, and I appreciate the fact that you are not limiting yourself to these suggestions. I think it is significant that the mother seems to have set some strong guidelines for herself, in terms of timing and quantity. Thank goodness this child is still breastfeeding! Smoking, drinking and weaning are all bad, of course, but let's not throw out the breastmilk with the bottles of booze. Jo-Anne *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html