Kathy, Gonneke's suggestion was right on. It sounds like it's time for a baby vacation. Mom and the baby, in bed with lots of skin-to-skin contact. The mom might also appreciate information on early signs of hunger and the normal course of early breastfeeding. Most newborns eat much more frequently than every 3 hours. Most newborns are made to do some cluster feeding also. Most, if not all, suckling should be done at the breast. Breast compressions couldn't hurt either. This mom might also get a lot out of sharing what she's going through with other moms. Is there a mother-to-mother support group in your area? It can be very comforting and a great learning experience for her. Hope this helps. Alicia Rudin, LLLL in the Sunshine State (Gainesville, FL) mailto:[log in to unmask] *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html