Jessica, You really answered your own question....they are too busy. They are not doing the same breastfeeding management. I am a mother of five, my age when children were born, 26, 30, 33, 35, & 38 (& still nursing). I remember with the 3rd & 4th ones having to sit and remind myself that I needed to nurse until the baby quit not until I had to jump up to do something for another child. I made sure that for at least 3 to 4 nursings a day that I had to wait until the baby was done. With my last one the other ones were able to help out more with each other and with him I had actually tons more milk thant with the others. So actually she might be short changing the baby because there are so many others depending on her too. She needs to look at that part of it. Belinda Bohnert, owner Nursing Matters Breastpump Sales & Rental Information, Encouragement & Support Indianapolis Indiana << The usual situation is someone who has nursed all her kids without problems, successfully, and all of the sudden they have a baby who is just not gaining, while they are still doing the same management of BF. It breaks my heart to see it, and these moms are usually too busy for the "put your all into it, nurse around the clock, pump, etc" advise. >> *********************************************** The LACTNET mailing list is powered by L-Soft's renowned LISTSERV(R) list management software together with L-Soft's LSMTP(TM) mailer for lightning fast mail delivery. For more information, go to: http://www.lsoft.com/LISTSERV-powered.html