Liz:

    I firmly believe that if we "listen" to our children they will tell us
what they need. My experience with mother's that I have worked with over the
years suuports  your expereice with your son. THey "know" what they can and
can not handle....I have adear friend whose son at 13 does not eat
bananas....he never has and reacted quited badly to them when they were "in"
her milk.

                                        patricia