This is also a problem in our corner of the world.  No card, no see.
However, it is a matter of ethics with me.  I weigh the baby and give it a
once over and try to answer mom's questions and see that she knows how to
get card, has support (br or bot) and know she can call or see me again.
Please don't tell my boss that I do this.  :-)  Sincerely, Pat in SNJ