Hi all,
ooohhh. what a topic!!!
a few things to think about :

1. Guilt trip - the only ones taking that trip are the ones who bought the 
ticket!! I also used to feel bad about the guilt "laid on", only to discover 
later on that the only person responsible for guilt is the owner of the 
feeling!! It is self inflicted due to bad choices - or choices perceived by 
the owner to be inferior.

2. Susan mentioned that it wasn't effective to go on, after the fact, but 
the truth is, it could help the mom who is feeling bad about her choice, the 
next time around. A few kind and not preaching words can help in aiding her 
to see where she could have been better informed to make a better choice.

Ellen Shein,
LLLI, IBCLC Tel Aviv 

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