>her, perhaps a friend knowing how stressed and exhausted she was that might
>offer to up expressed milk from her at her house at midnight every night and
>drive it to the hospital.

You've got to be kidding me .  You mean that NICU moms have to take their
milk at all hours?  There's no place to keep it cold or frozen in the NICU?
 It can't wait until morning?

No wonder so many moms of preemies can't last at their BF/expressing attempts.

Andrea