I like to emphasize in my class that if at all possible...couples should spend the first few days home with eachother and baby (other children if present.)..and avoid interruptions from well meaning family and friends. All too often breastfeeding takes a turn for the worst when there are too many opinions and words of wisdom given from poorly informed helpers. That narrow field of confidence they go home with gets even smaller when they are filled with doubts..."maybe you don't have enough milk", or "I couldn't breastfeed either"...comments that intimidate rather than support. Sharon