In a message dated 96-12-02 00:02:14 EST, you write: << I don't think it's a good idea to suggest a gigantic book to a woman who feels she is in a crisis. Nofia >> I'm a few days late reading posts but I agree with you, Nofia. The original poster asked about helping via email and I suggested LCs, LLL, and books. You're right if it is a "terrible bf problem" which I didn't realize was how she described the crisis, then the mom needs an LC or an MD, IMHO, and no book will do. But in general you can also suggest a good book for them to have on hand anyways. Your suggestions are good ones. I also like Womanly Art and Nursing Mother's Companion. Respectfully, Laurie Wheeler, rnc, mn, ibclc louisiana