Greetings! I spoke to a mom today with a 2 yr old who is still nursing, and having been concerned she was pregnant, consulted her ob. She had been spotting a little, and felt queasy, home preg was negative, and also had a blood test-negative, so went to see the doc., basically, she wasn't pregnant. However hubby in waiting room witnessed an interchange-doc said to his nurse-"she's still BREASTfeeding" and threw the chart toward the nurse(several other people were in the waiting area as well) giving hubby the impression the doc felt he had wasted his time concerning pregnancy, etc,because of BF. Hubby's impression was that the doc was very angry-to the point he asked her "did he do something to you? Did he hurt you? Are you alright?(Same concerned hub gives her grief about weaning regularly!) Mom was told she would never get back to normal cycles, and the longer she cont'd nursing, the more "messed up" she'd get. My question(mom gave permission to ask all of you )-she wants to respond to this, to let the doc know his behavior was unprofessional, exhibited a breach of patient confidentiality(others in waiting room having heard )etc. What do you think? Write a letter now, phone call, wait til the next time she sees him-did he have a bad day? Thanks for any ideas!!! Georgeanne [log in to unmask]