Judy: don't hide, i doubt that any rocks wil lbe thrown.... last time it was discussed at milk banking...hiv was not able to live in bmilk...it is a very fragile virus, deadly but frail...many of the very deadly ones are...the new one in africa... there is a lovely, touching story, by a health care worker, in the fall edition of Mothering...she tells her story of working with a hiv + child...resourses for information are given... patricia