This story rings so many alarm bells.....here, we would be obliged to 
regard this as a child protection issue , and our volunteer 
counsellors would be obliged to alert the mother's HCP of everything 
in your post, telling the mother they were doing so, and to do so 
straight away.

Heather Welford Neil
NCT bfc, tutor, UK
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